Have you ever wondered what it’s like to read other people’s minds?
Here are 9 essential signs that will always help you find out if the
guy is trying to flirt with you.
We cannot teach you to read his mind, but we are capable of teaching you to read his body language which is quite efficient.
Check out the following 9 signs telling that the man is really keen on you.
1. The closer the better!
The more often you notice the guy around you the better. This
happening only when he is really into you. Indeed, why would someone who
is indifferent to you want to see, hear you or simply be noticed by
you? If you also find him attractive, let him know by flirting back,
smiling or just saying a friendly “hi”.
2. Eye contact
This is something that you cannot rely on 100%. Nevertheless, pay
attention to it. There is no need to avoid eye contact if you like the
person. During a conversation this merely means that you are listening
to the person and that you are fully focused on what he is saying. If
you noticed that eye contact lasts longer, then the guy is likely to be
genuinely interested in you. On the other hand, a short eye contact can
be as expressive as a long one. It all depends on the person’s
temperament and character. Some guys might like you a lot although their
eye contact will be rather short.
3. Hands on hips
Do not ignore his posture. If his thumb is in the belt loop or he
prefers to hold his hands on the hips, then he is certainly interested
in you. This kind of posture tells a lot about the guy’s temperament and
character. Such signs are typical of very self-confident people. Some
ladies do not find it attractive at all, though, and interpret it rather
impolite and sometimes even rude or offensive.
4. A flirting touch
It’s absolutely normal if you notice that from time to time he
gently touches you. It means that he needs even more of your attention.
Did you enjoy his touch? If yes, then, then continue communication. You
can even touch him back. Make him feel wanted and show him that you are
also attracted to him.
5. Raised eyebrows
Less courageous guys usually hide their eyes when they are around
the girls they like. This is quite natural and even charming. But if his
eyes open wide and his eyebrows raised, this can be interpreted in one
way only: he is definitely into you. Watch for this sign during your
conversation.
6. His warm-hearted and sincere smile
A smile is by all means a positive sign. Smile back at him and let
him approach you. This will make your very first contact friendly and
warm. Please do not be shy and come up to him first if you like him.
Expressing your friendliness first is never impolite. A small talk about
this and that to break the ice is also a good idea. Be yourself! Be
simple, polite, and down-to-earth. This will help to release the tension
between your potential boyfriend and you. Do people consider you a
tough nut to crack? What we suggest is that you leave your ambitions and
attitude for a while. Finally, always keep in mind that you will never
get a second chance to make a first impression.
7. Head Tilts
Some girls might not even know about that, but head tilts tell a
lot! The way he tilts his head can mean that he is all ears and wants to
hear every word you say. That’s a good sign. If the guy does is not
fully involved in the conversation, then he is probably not as impressed
by you as you would like. Being a good listener is a rare quality,
especially if we are talking about men. Enjoy being listened to by
someone who likes you and appreciates you as a person who is interesting
to talk and listen to.
8. Avoiding Eye Contact
Does the guy you are with avoid eye contact? No worries! He is
hiding his eyes just because he is shy. It does not mean that he isn’t
happy to see you. On the contrary, he adores you. This is what would
happen to any one of us if we met someone we idealize, worship, and
appreciate. Being around someone you have got a crush on isn’t easy. All
you can do is to make him feel comfy. Be friendly and polite to him.
That’s all.
9. Mirroring technique
Mirroring means repeating movements of the person you are with.
They way they talk, walk, smile, etc. Have you noticed that he copies
some certain actions you do? That’s fine. Be understanding and realize
that he cannot control what is usually done unconsciously. Some of the
most advanced dating sites suggest mirroring technique because they find
it quite effective and helpful. It’s pleasant to have someone who is so
much into you that they even copy you. It is said that copying is the
ultimate form of flattery!
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